2.06.2013

The Inevitable Has Come

I am officially on bed rest.

Somehow I knew the day would come, I just didn't think it would be this soon.

Considering that I am a whopping 5'4" (well, I round up - I'm 5'3.5"),
I have 2 babies growing inside of me,
and I haven't been allowed to do any strenuous exercise,
this probably shouldn't be a surprise.

However, I have felt great throughout the pregnancy and was genuinely beginning to think that I was going to beat the odds of moms of twins ending up on bed rest.  

It was hard at first to hear that I had to be on bed rest, but it has become easier and easier to accept as I realize that the ultimate goal is to have 2 healthy babies.  If taking it easy will help me reach that goal, bring it on!

The great news is, the babies are doing SO well!  At my last Dr's appointment I got an ultrasound to check their growth and our little babies are growing like crazy.
The ultrasound tech kept saying, "Wow, you've got some butterballs in there!"
Basically, our babies are little chunks and are both measuring
2 weeks bigger than how far along I am.

Baby Boy was about 3 lbs. 4 oz.
Baby Girl was about 3 lbs. 5 oz.

This is fantastic news because their growth patterns have been consistent, it means they are both getting the nutrients they need, and if I deliver early they will have an advantage because of their size.

Before I tell the story of how we found out that I need to be on bed rest, here are pictures from the last 2 weeks.

Week 28
  I was pretty surprised to see just how big I am!

Week 29



 Here's the story of how we learned I need to be on bed rest:

During the same growth ultrasound I was just talking about the tech noticed that my cervix didn't look normal, so after talking with the specialist we found that my cervix is doing something called "funneling."  This basically means that it is beginning to open from the inside. 

The Dr. sent us to the hospital to get further monitoring and we learned that I have been having fairly frequent contractions and that I am 40% effaced and just barely dilated (less than 1cm).  I hadn't felt any of the contractions, which is good, but we needed to calm them down.  So I had some medicine to help my uterus relax and after 8ish hours of monitoring we left the hospital with orders to be on bed rest until my next Dr's appointment.

My next appointment was scheduled for 4 days later and the good news is that nothing has changed!  I haven't dilated any more and my contractions have calmed down.
In order to keep things steady and prevent more pre-term labor I have been put on bed rest indefinitely.  We'll just take it week by week to keep these babies cookin'!

Luckily I can still get up to grab a snack, shower, go to the bathroom, and I can drive short distances.  Just no shopping, going on walks, preparing meals, and things that
require me to be on my feet for a while.  

This also means no more nannying.
This is really sad because the family I nanny for is incredible.  They have truly been such a blessing in our lives.  I felt so bad leaving them so suddenly, but they were completely understanding and want 2 healthy babies they can snuggle too.

So, to entertain myself I have taken up a new hobby of knitting - which I am loving!  
I'm working on a baby blanket :)
I'm also reading, working on puzzles, watching movies and getting things in order for when the babies are here!

Martin has been the best support system I could ask for.  He makes sure I'm comfy, he cleans, he cooks, he runs to the store, he does puzzles with me, he gets books at the library for me, he asks the people he works with for ideas to entertain me, and most of all - he loves me :) 
I'm very blessed to have him and so are these little babies.

7 comments:

  1. Aunt Kat2/06/2013

    Oh, Katy, I love you! You are so positive and upbeat--and that's some of the best medicine there is. Those babies are so lucky to have you! (And can I say that I think it's awesome that the ultrasound tech kept calling your babies butterballs? SO cute ... and SO helpful for their health too!)

    Given how enormous those babies have made your tummy, it's no wonder that you need to be on bed rest to keep gravity from bringing them right out into the world. Seriously, you're already packing more than the equivalent of one full-term baby! I'm so glad that you're finding things to keep you occupied. And I'm glad Martin is being a good support! (But be honest, when you say "he cooks," is it pizza that he hides the box to and then magically pulls from the oven??)

    Oh, and James's wife, Peggy, says Pinterest is a great way to wile away the bed-rest hours. :) She's quite the avid Pinterest-er if you need someone to follow!

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    1. Hahaha you know your brother too well. He has done a good job shopping for frozen meals :) But he DID make some chip dip for the Super Bowl and cracked wheat for breakfast in the mornings.

      I'm definitely going to follow Peggy's pinterest-ing, thanks for the tip!

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  2. aw, glad you knew it might be in your future so you weren't completely surprised. sorry you had to be in a hospital for 8 hours that day! but SO happy to hear that nothing has changed. i don't think i'd want anything to reverse, but to stay the same is perfect. you are doing your part!

    and yes, the butterballs part, put it in the baby books! or print this into a book some day. that's easiest for me:)

    cool about knitting! if only it were before Christmas, you could cut snowflakes:) you could save up 'til next Christmas, b/c you'll have your hands full then!!

    I was going to call you this morning, but it was too early, then i didn't. i'll call you some time, not tomorrow b/c i work, but after that. p.s. what are your babies' names? Geranimo or Jeron-imo??

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    1. I love the idea of printing blog books. I always liked that you do that, it's like a family journal!

      Not a bad idea on the snowflakes, plus it's still cold and snowy here. And I could attempt to make the AMAZING snowflakes you make. Martin laughed when he saw my snowflakes this year, they don't even compare to yours :)

      Yes, give me a call when you have a couple minutes, but no rush, you are busy. And no names yet - good memory on the Jeronimo :)

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  3. Bug! You're so dang cute! I'm so happy for you! Those babies are baking away! You look like you've dropped in the 29 week pic! Can you breathe any easier? I love, love, love the updates! Miss you and I need your address! I've been SHOPPING!!!!!

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    1. Thanks Auntie Sarah! Yeah, I can tell I've dropped, our little boy is hanging out in all my organs down there - and you know what that means for our Burnham bladders haha. Breathing has improved, my lungs just feel crowded when I'm laying down, but then our little girl eventually moves. I'll text you my address :) Thanks for being excited with us!

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  4. Great to have the ability to monitor to let you know it is time to prevent gravity from doing its thing too soon. We love you and are so excited

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